Hoping this can be saved, but having doubts 3

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I see what you're saying.

I was prepared for the fact that she would date, we were separated after all.

There's a difference between separating your lives and dating other people eventually, vs the obvious urgency to move out (i.e. being willing to leave dogs, etc..) and sleeping with another dude less than a week later.

That was clearly the motivation behind the urgency, and she was clearly not leaving until she had another R lined up.

She doesn't get to cherry pick the parts she wants, and while I an open to us being friend in the future (maybe) I don't know too many couples who can immediately be all buddy buddy.