LH19,

I would have liked to stay married. I was open to being friends when she moved out, had she no immediately jumped into a new R with OM.

The fact that she waiting until she had an exit affair lined up cost me a lot of respect for her. She may not have TECHNICALLY cheated, but it was by the barest of technicalities.

I don't think I'm emotionally in a place where I can be platonic friends with her. She just moved out a few weeks ago.


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18