Thanks again Vanilla seems you are always right on point!
My next question is the matrimonial home is in both our names. Now once my W leaves should I ask for all the keys back and change the locks. We also got a keypad lock for my son when he was smaller so that he would not have to loose the keys. Is that a part of setting up boundaries? Now her name is still on title and we will probably have to sell it in the future but since I don't have access to her place should she still have access to our home? She will have moved most of her stuff to her home I would think. Or do I make it a condition that i be home when she comes by?
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18