So I just had this conversation with the wife.


W
Hey! So I think we should figure out a plan for dropping off the dogs /picking them up every week. Originally I had thought that you and I would be able to remain friends but it's pretty apparent that you are not interested in that. That's okay. I'm happy to see you doing your own thing and finding happiness. I am going to take a step back and that means less communication day to day. I feel like the dogs complicate that so I think if we could schedule as much as possible that would be better for both of us. I'm working through next Friday but will be able to take <dog> starting on the 14th.


Me
Hey!
I had also hoped we'd be able to remain friends. Given the way everything happened, right now I am not interested in spending time together when you are involved with another man. We'll see what happens down the road.

I'm happy to work out a schedule with the dogs.


W
The way everything happened?
I'm not sure what that is supposed to mean. But regardless, my dating life would be irrelevant in a friend relationship



I have not responded yet. Thoughts are welcome.


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18