So last night was MC. Most of the session was centered on our D, and the issues we are having. Counselor agreed that our focus should be on her for now, with the level of changes that she is facing.

When we got home we confronted her.

DENY DENY DENY

Even when showing her messages where she used bad language and other discussions she shouldn't have had, she claimed a "friend" knew her Snapchat pw and was posting as her. She held on to this explanation and would not give it up. Even with her mother and me telling her we didn't believe that, she would not give that up.

My W told her things are going change. Her freedom is being curtailed. We haven't decided if and when she will get her phone back. We are going to start instituting a couple of family devotions each week, as well as a family game night. We admitted to making mistakes, I admitted to making a lot of mistakes.

We saw some flashes of her recent bad attitude, and we those moments were met with extremely forceful responses suggesting to her that we are in control.

We'll see how it goes moving forward. She has been much more well-behaved since she realized we knew some of her behavior and since the contact with a second teacher.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018