S15 is in counseling. We also have gone in as a family with his counselor. The reason he talked about MC is because he saw a pamphlet at church for Retrouvaille and asked her if she would go. In his words "If you love me - you would do it for me"-She out right said no- I'm done. I think he sees that I have done what I could even before I got the DR book and found this site I was advised by a friend to do the Love Dare because of my catholic beliefs. Some of the dares did work but for most part she was too far gone. She has not said ILY or anything to recon since she BD. It may be the case where she's totally done. I want my family together more than ever but I know I have to focus on me now.Part of me feels that you get what you give because she is so cold with S15 that she putting very little effort into interacting with him even after she seen episodes of anger and hurt. My son also suffers from anxiety so he's missed alot of school - he used to be an 80-90% student. Now he's failing English while the other classes have dropped a bit. My only concern now is to be the best dad that I can be - be strong and continue my faith in the Lord.
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18
