Andrew and Vanilla thanks so much for your input about mothers day.
My son and I have become alot closer during this turmoil.It seems that he only trust me at this point.One thing I need to ask you is my son hates the fact that his mom just quit did not try will not go to MC (We did go once 4 yrs ago ). I tried to facilitate a relationship between them. I've said that he still has to treat his mom with respect and dignity. I've spoken with my priest and he said to allow my son to heal in his own time. He has told me he doesn't want his mother to come to his upcoming band concert ( he plays the sax)and his baseball games. I'm torn weather to tell her or not because if I tell her and she goes I'm going against my sons wishes and right now I don't want to upset him if shes goes. I also feel as his mother she should know so that she can go if she chooses. Should I make him tell his mother or just let it be. On a side note The woman I married would cry at Disney movies- and now she walks around the house with no emotion just coming in after work eating and then going upstairs in the spare room to speak with her mom and sister for 2-3 hours. Son has plainly asked his mother to go to MC just for him - her reply was No - I'm done. In this scenario what would you guys do?
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18
