Advice on my scenario Pt. 3

[OrangeK]

Not likely, no matter how good he was to them. The point I want you to see here is that how much this matters to you that they tell her . These are things you have to let go

I agree, but its hard. Im a public servant, image matters to me. I spend legitimate effort cultivating a relationship of respect with these people, and she has tarnished it with lies and slander.

Cart full o' horse crap IMO. I get that others opinions don't really matter, as i know my value as does my family and friends. It just pisses me off.
Im not out there making crap up about her, or trying to get to each family and friend of hers to let them know what a POS she has been.
No. Because I am a mature adult.
I was only guilty of one very spiteful FB post back in Jan, which i promptly deleted.