This makes sense, she doesn't know anything else. How long does family believe every man shes dated or friend she has has screwed her over, at what point do that say "well you must be the problem then..."?
How long? IRL cases I've known, the LBS nevers knows if or when or how long it takes her family/friends. I mean, who is going to tell him? Her family? Not likely, no matter how good he was to them. The point I want you to see here is that how much this matters to you that they tell her . These are things you have to let go,
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
