Originally Posted By: OrangeK

How old is your wife?
Mine will be 31 on Xmas Eve.
i think the stage of life and her social situation when with me played big roles. Like she isnt ready to be an adult, because she lacks the maturity of one.


My W will be 31 on Oct. 26. Weird, huh?... And I agree, my W lacks the maturity to be an adult as well. We had or first child when my W had just turned 21. And 2 more after that. She has told me that she feels she missed out on her 20's bc of having kids so young. I think she's trying to recreate being 21 at the age of 30, and it isn't gonna happen. That stage of her life has passed. No matter how hard she tries, it will never be the same. Now she just looks pathetic being 30 running around with kids in their early 20's. IMO it's selfish and irresponsible...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...