Orange, I have read a lot on narcissistic personalities, and my W fits the description as well. Especially the part about having energy/attention needs met. Things seemed fine until she got the job bartending, and then she found a better source of attention, so I was thrown to the side so she could feed off of it. All the while, stringing me along to get as much attention as she could possibly get. She has some serious childhood issues she needs to deal with before she can ever get better or we could ever have a healthy relationship. I wish you the best of luck...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...