Don't change your plans, give her the invitation. Its still her son. AS talks about detaching with love. IMO it's the right thing to do, to invite your son mother to his party. He will love if she shows up.
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Originally Posted By: mtb1981
joejoe, are you saying that I should call her and invite her, or I should invite her if she calls? Wouldn't me calling her be considered pursuit?
Call her, tell her your plans and invite her along. When it's something like this for the kids then IMO it's not pursuit. Michele says in one of her books that it is fine to invite a WAS along for something that you are doing whether they go or not. IE, if you're taking the kids to the zoo then you can say "hey we're going to the zoo Saturday at 10:00, you're welcome to join if you wish." Whether she says yes or no YOU STILL GO. That's the difference, it's not a "date" if you're going whether she joins or not.
