How do you DB when you have kids

[JRuss]

Lots of great advice in this thread. The key, as always, is to have your own life that's awesome, where you're the best parent you can be, and the best person you can be. If you do that, you'll move on emotionally, and DB just becomes life, not something you have to "do" or strategize over. Getting there emotionally is the challenge, of course, but it's a beautiful journey in a lot of ways, even if painful, and if you do it right, it will fill you with immense and justified pride that you made it.