Artista, I get where you are coming from, but I don't feel like I apologized for not working more, but rather for dismissing her feelings and threatening her perception of her financial security and safety. That's badly worded, but I hope it makes sense.
She wasn't a stay at home mom, but physical issues prevented her from working more, and then depression because of the physical issues wreaked havoc.
Believe me, I agree with you about her buying the house, and her insistence on me working more, but she's not about to apologize for these things.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17