I'm glad you are in a good spot.

GAL is about goals outside of the M. Not NC, not showing her what she will be missing.

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Last month or so I've been NC and GAL and I've noticed she actually tried to talk to me a couple of times when I was calling the kids. Strange, because of her tone seemed like she wanted to reconcile, but in retrospect - she realized she doesn't want to be a single mother with 3 kids.


They often do this to temp take or see if they still have any hold. Just proceed with caution.

I mean these things for your own benefit.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.