Right,I feel a bit better this morning.

'His circus, his monkeys.

But why is he visiting his ex if his kids are grown?

V'

His D left her home to go and study last year. But she hated it (she was pushed into it by her mum) and lasted a term. She decided to leave her course and go home. So she's there while she works for a bit, saves some money, and wait for the make up artistry course she really wanted to do to start (in the autumn).

His son is finishing a postgrad, but is basically in short term rented/student accommodation and back home for all the holidays.

I guess the dynamic will change when they both have jobs and their own places?

And then it will change again once they are both in serious Rs and want to spend the little holidays that they get from work with their partners?


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017