Also, tomorrow is my 37th birthday and our youngest son's 3rd birthday. I'm assuming that W will try to contact me at some point to see if she can come by to see him or take him to do something. I was planning on taking the kids out to dinner to celebrate our birthdays. Do I just tell her we already have plans and she can see him when we get back, or should I invite her to go along with us? I don't want to keep her from seeing the kids, but at the same time, I don't think I should change my plans...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019