How do you DB when you have kids

[Newly20]

I feel you on this one, Ive tried going as dark as possible but me and W have a D that we exchange everyday. We don't talk to each other on these exchanges, so its possible to do NC to some extent but man oh man is it hard.

I actually just had a lengthy convo via text with wife, before she would write only single words or short sentences, this time was full on. NOt that it was anything to be excited about, mainly just giving me her side of unhappiness and what she is bothered with, and to end it she did state she is sure of what she wants and that she has filed for divorce already. Time will tell

Keep your head up, i will be reading more into your sitch shortly.