Shoot, I wrote a big reply and then I think I liked submit just as my old thread was locked, so it didn't post and now I think it's vanished.

Basically, his D still lives at home and his son is finishing a postgrad and term time is in student/rented accommodation.

Except it was much more eloquent than that.

Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017