I guess I'm finding it too hard to believe that something this good could happen to me...
Well I'm glad you are excited about the prospects. It's been 6 years since BD and 4 since D for me and to be honest if my ex suddenly expressed interest I think my reaction would be a genuine mix of astonishment and revulsion Even if I didn't have a GF I just cannot imagine going back there, just... no. I mean she's still an attractive woman and sweet and all, but for me the wounds cut too deep. So that's kind of where I'm coming from, I can certainly see how someone (whether WAS or LBS) would have major trepidation about recon after years have passed. But stranger things have happened!