Advice on my scenario Pt. 3

[OrangeK]

So many different resources and threads mention the importance of WS / or someone with a PD to need to "hit rock bottom" before they start effecting changes and seeing what they did.

I feel awful to wish pain on her, but i want her to smash into rock bottom so hard her teeth crack. She needs it. Shes been babied her whole life.
She needs to experience a hard loss, struggle a hardship ALONE.
but she always has someone there to prop her up (om in this case)

She did mention once that between her EX and Me, that she "was in a really dark place"
this is because she didnt have someone to be in Limerence with.
Shes addicted to the chase, to the butterflies. She cant be alone, it crushes her.

I want her to be forced to be alone, to have to turn the microscope back on herself.

She needs to hit bottom. Hard. Face First.
For my son more than anything.
It may not fix MY Sitch if she does, but she needs help, and the catalyst to make her realize she needs help.