Advice on my scenario Pt. 3

[OrangeK]

I dont know what scares me more,
Having the RO extended on Thursday or if it gets dismissed.

I know my plan if it is dismissed is to not reach out to her at all. No clue if she will reach out to me if it is lifted. Im guessing not right at first, and if so, it'll be because she needs something.

I checked today, the motion to put D on hold is still pending, i think the judge might sit on it till May 22nd when we have our first actual divorce hearing scheduled.

Im fighting the temptation to file an order to dismiss All D proceedings, but i feel like that will look like me trying to pursue and control, as well as piss off the court / judge.

No clear path to walk. Pros and Cons for all options.

I just want to talk to her.....