Journaling: I have been GAL more than ever and just trying to stay out of her space. She rotates between being nice and nasty. She stopped me before I was leaving one night and told me that she will be filing soon. I asked her if she felt that being divorced would solve all of her problems and make her instantly happy. She responded that she will be much more happy once the divorce is final. The roller coaster ride is maddening. The rewriting of marital history is maddening. The push/pull is maddening. I need to work much, much more on detaching.


M: 50 W: 47
No kids together
M: 10 T: 11
BD #1: 12/14
R #1: 7/15
BD #2: 1/18
D Filed: 6/18/18
D Final: 01/28/19
Currently still in-house