Do you want an R with a WH who treats you as Plan B every time he feels like it? A serial cheater who dumps you in a very cruel way and uses you like a hotel service. Who wakes up for as long as it takes to go back to sleep again. Who cycles periodically and who sells this deal to others? It's cute to treat your W as a dish rag returning when it suits you to get your emotional washing done. He is a lying cheating scumbag in my eyes to treat the mother of his children in this way. But hey, I am strong on arse kicking cheaters and kicking their entitled ways to the curb. Reality bites.
There are endless possible OW in the world, supply upon supply with no knickers, trust me I know this. I saw the G with his hands up the skirt of the fishwife in an open bar 1.5 months after we were M.
Putting your health at risk with his selfish encounters is physical abuse.
I get it, been there, after all the G had 9 OW. How many do you forgive? How much hope do you hold onto? How much do you suffer to R briefly?
When is it enough?
When you say so. It is always the LBS that says enough.
Expect rage, fake remorse and silent treatment when you do.
I want to say kick his arse to the kerb, but it's never that easy.
You aren't missing WH but the connection, the dreams and the life.
But those are your dreams not his. Nicole, you are a lady and worth everything. I think the consulting is amazing, congratulations on your changes, that is not easy. I wouldn't mention his disgust reaction, just note it and know it's blah blah blah. Stupid idiot hasn't a clue about the real world.
Nicole, you have your big girl pants on, now get those big girl boots and boot him to the kerb.
My thoughts
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
