I don't think your delaying your reply will come off as your are angry. It will be your reply. If she texts you and your replyvis not feel with anger or contempt I think you will be find.
IMO, I think delaying your reply reminds her, she's not your top priority, and you have a life.
She just cancelled on you, showing you that you are not her top priority and she still have a life besides you. So I wouldn't let delaying your reply bother you too much about how should will read it.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
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