Yes Arista, I too don't think she was sick. I think I did the right thing when she said if I was around tomorrow to give her a shout and I replied can't do tomorrow as this was my last night off until next Friday...which is actually the truth as I'm working a lot, every night this week, filling in for an ill coworker. What I don't understand is why she didn't just leave it at she was busy Saturday. Why bother changing it ten minutes later? Also I was always sure to act like I needed to set these meetings up a few days ahead of time because i too am busy... rather than just agree to whatever night she said. Having said that what makes you think I was at her beck and call? I'm curious if you might see something I did that shows that that I don't see as I purposely tried to do the opposite. I doubt she'll text today but if she does I guess I'll delay reply. My only concern with doing that is I want to give the impression it's no big deal to me that she cancelled, that I'm not upset. If I delay reply that might signal her that she upset me as opposed to just replying within an hour or so and acting cool saying I hope she feels better. I don't want to in any way give her the idea this is bothering me...on the contrary I want her to think he's obviously unphased by it. Thoughts?
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
