I'm confused on what you are asking in your last question about Leni and the lawyer.
Are you asking us about our opinion on a phonecon/3 way call between Leni and your lawyer?
I think delaying is you not lifting a hand to help. There's a difference between you not lifting a hand and you telling your W you wont do something until your conditions are met.
You set conditions of 10 days, look at it from your W stand point. How do You think she will view that action. I view it as taking a person hostage.
How is that showing your W a confident man? How is that not controlling and manipulating.
IMO, your W is not going to come back because you withheld a piece of paper, she's going to come back because you are strong, confident, not controlling or manipulating and interesting.
Do what makes you look attractive, do what makes you look strong. Do what makes her want to be with you.
You worrying about a piece of paper makes you look weak and unattractive.
I'm telling you this not to be mean, but for you to take the time and evaluate this action objectively. Put yourself outside you own decision and what kind of man do you see?
A confident man would say, "ok W I will sign the paper. I love you and I want our M, but I want stand in your way".
True love, is allowing a person to be free. If you truly love a person you allow them to make their own decisions, you allow them to be themselves and you don't forced them to do things they don't want to do.
The most profound act of love is LETTING go.
Let go, have patience and allow time and space to do it's thing.
Yes. Like you mentioned i decided to let her go completely and emailed the documents and wished her the very best. So shevdoes not have to suffer any further emotional trauma due to my delay. I will involve the lawyer if required at a later point of time.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
