All you need is some catchy non controversial comment to get you going. If they don't respond, just shrug it off. If they do keep on and respond.
It's not so hard, just stop the script in your head that says "noooooooooo........
Accept that card if she gives it to you, if she says I am taken well it's just pleasantry a flirty way to lightly interact.
I chatted to a guy today in the supermarket about red wine and we had a coffee in the coffee shop. I made a comment to an elderly couple about shopping trolleys having a life of their own and they introduced me to their son who had come to pick them up.
So in the coffee shop, you can joke about the rain diluting the coffee, or the type of cookies on sale. Just a simple opener and watch what happens. It's flirty and pleasant. Get over your fear of the casual remark. Some peeps respond others don't. If they don't back off. One guy had a great jumper, another a sassy sweat shirt. So I said I love your jumper looks great on you, he didn't respond so I backed off with a beaming smile. Who doesn't like to hear they look good?
It's just an opener. It won't hurt you. And in case you think I am an extrovert I am not. Just acting as if for 10 secs.
Can't help on OLD though!
I am strictly a IRL girl.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
