Now she is asking me if she can pay me to help her with some excel work for her job.
Gee, if she didn't contact you, we'd probably never hear from you........b/c you would be move on with your life. One text, and whamo it has you at a lost to what to do? Chris, I've told you previously that she does this to keep you emotionally attached to her. When are you going to believe me?
Here's the respond:
Don't like that one?^^^^^^ How about......."Hell no!"
It is way, way past time to tell her to take a hike. If you had done that when she cheated, she might have straighten up.........instead of still yanking your chain. Time to deal with her like a man. A man who couldn't care less if she ever gets help with Excel.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
