Send her the document. Why are you holding it up. You have to get out of her way. By you making your declaration of 10 days, it seems like you are trying to control her.
Stop trying to control her. You holding up that document is all about control. You giving over that document is not you saying you are giving up on the M.
Its now time for you to GAL and keep moving forward. Work on 180s and detaching.
You are trying to stay attached to her by holding that document over her head. She needs space from you and you need space from her. I know it's scary because a lot of unknown is involved, but you want get her back by holding this document over her head, you will only push her away faster.
She must see a strong and confident Nut. She must see a Nut that she knows will be fine without her.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.