Sandi / Vanilla,

If there is anything else about WW you want to know to help better understand, please just ask. I'd be happy to provide any further details that would allow you to better advise me on what my WW's situation is and how I should proceed, beyond the obvious DB'ing stuff.

I want to keep on hoping things could improve, but i look at some of the other threads, and i feel like WW and i have been separated too long already, shes got too much invested in her new social circle from her job, which includes OM.

I am self focused on GAL, but i know until the chips fall and settle ill always have this glimmer of hope that i can save my family, despite all the efforts i have made to disconnect and don my emotional armor.

What a disappointment.
I was so excited to live our lives together.
I thought we wanted the same things. I thought we were soul mates.

"Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny"
~C.S. Lewis


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds