and next time she says something so self-centered you can reply, "don't be surprised if i tell you call a taxi."
you have to keep up a position of confidence... what you share about your wife leaves me with my mouth wide open... she is so full of herself... how can you stand it? she doesn't want to be married to you... she is having an affair with a 19-year old... that grosses me to the nth degree... my sons are 18 and 22... both have friends that are 19... ewwwww... seriously! let him take her to the airport or get her water... or pause her television show...
don't give in to her silly demands... keep standing up for yourself and eventually you will actually BELIEVE it! you will believe in yourself... but you have to keep practicing it...
--artista
Thanks, artista. I fully intend to keep practicing it until I believe it. It has been a real eye opener to see the responses here and fully realize how spoiled and entitled she has become due to my accomodation. The sad thing is, I don't think she is spoiled at all in a general sense. She does not act that way with the rest of the world. I have created my own monster. But that does not excuse her or mean she should not be able to realize how ridiculous she has become... I totally agree with you about the A. It disgusts me too. I don't know what she is thinking, but I think she is very lost in her own unhappiness.
M: 26 W: 26 M: 1.5 T: 3 No kids BD: 31 March 2018
W's affair began: 23 March 2018 Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018 Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018 Ended in-house separation: July 2018
