And since you do not have any kids, it is possible to go competely dark. It is very cruel to contact you like this over and over again.

H-30s W-30s
M-5 T-10
D4
ILYBNILWY/BD-May/17
W moves out-May/17
D filed-May/17
House sold, move to apartment-Aug/17
D going through-Jan/18?