Advice on my scenario pt. 2

[OrangeK]

Same here, My W left in Oct and i have my son 4 nights a week, and other obligations most others. Free time for ME is at a premium right now.
Pick small things you can do for yourself, for me its been stuff as simple as getting back into gaming at home with friends, or picking up some new books, or hitting my roommates gym equip in the basement.
I will be learning to ride a motorcycle soon, as according to my roommate "you'll never need therapy again once you get on a bike"

riding the Kangamangus Pass on a motorcycle is my end of summer goal.


Honestly once my kid is in bed, a cup of coffee (yes i drink coffee at 11pm) a good book and some soothing music has been one of my best GAL activities.
Gives me time to relax and step out of my own head.

I still have days I miss my W TERRIBLY, and other days I get furious at her betrayals and lies, but i find more and more often, those events are less frequent and last less time each occurrence.

As much as it doesn't feel like it, i honestly think WW is suffering more than me. In different ways mind you, but THIS debacle is not what she had in mind for an end result, I can guarantee that.

I've been having good convo's with a woman i used to talk to way back in the day, and it was entirely unintentional too. Just kinda happened. Nothing I'm actively pursuing but its helped with my self esteem.