Please don't chat with D about this. Let her have her privacy.

Remember the lighthouse strategy?

The picnic by the lighthouse is what you need right now.


You are doing great on it ok. Be patient let her develop her thoughts and feelings with dad.

This is where loving detachment works wonders and setting boundaries for you and D.

Children want to love their parents want boundaries.

It's ok. She is allowed her feelings and if she wants someone to talk to then there is IC.

And family therapy too.

You have the gift of time.
Relax it's going great.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW