My W once told me that it was up to me to file, and then spent the next few weeks angry with me because I did not do as she wanted. Mine uses it as leverage I think. To get me to meet her demands because she knows that I don't want a D.

After the first BD, she did the same. Yelling about a D but never filed. Sometimes, esp after BD2, I feel like I am in the movie Groundhog Day.

M: 50 W: 47
No kids together
M: 10 T: 11
BD #1: 12/14
R #1: 7/15
BD #2: 1/18
D Filed: 6/18/18
D Final: 01/28/19
Currently still in-house