I remember those conversations. H had mentally divided our assets and was apartment shopping. We talked about retirement, custody, everything.

There was no OW, although there was the hope for someone in the future.

Hang in there.

Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16