Oh, Steve, I totally agree. While I was calm during our conversation, please know I thought the exact same thing about his little house in the woods! Good grief!
In addition, the selfishness of the MLC spouse is unbelievable. We do NOT have the financial stability to fund our family home and his house in the woods. I think he envisioned us quickly selling our family home and then each buying new ones. When I mentioned to him about our younger daughter, it was quite clear, he had not given any thought to her or what she might want. Our conversation leads me to believe even more strongly that there must be an OW.
Certainly this forum is a great place to vent! Even though he didn't know it at the time, I walked away from the conversation realizing just how delusional he is right now.
Keep in mind, I do all of the bills and track the finances for our family.
