Mate it really doesn't mater who files.

Divorce can be reverse even if you start it by filing you can stop at any time, you can also reconcile and remarry.

The big d is not always the end, my sil from my first marriage reconciled dozens of time with her husband and married him twice... at the end of his life they were apart but reconciling again.

Sometime the actual d can wake them them, especially as you have to seperate your money, otherwise she can use your funds to fund her new life and any Om.

So maybe if you don't file do a property settlement and child agreements post haste.
This help reality settle in hard often.


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26