How do you guys suggest handling the W asking for friendly advice? Today she asked me for advice about taking out a small business loan.
I talked with her for awhile (I think it's a terrible idea in her situtation) but ultimately feel like solving her problems is not my responsibility any more.
I gave some good advice then ended the convo, and she came back later and said "what would you do if you were me". - I don't want to get sucked into being her buddy, or normalizing her decisions.
I mean, saying "Ask OM what he thinks" would be appropriate, but too hostile.
Me, H-39, W-33 T11, M3 No children Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants" Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well. W moved out 3/18 OM Confirmed 4/1 D Final 9/27/18
