Hey 44tries, that's great to hear! The main reason I keep coming back here to update all these years later is for exactly that reason you mention. This initial months after the bomb drop are just brutal, hopeless, and devastating in every way. There is no eating, sleeping etc. Every day is sheer hell and constant tears if intense sadness. I was there and I want people to know that it DOES get better. I thought maybe it does for others but it won't for me...my situation is just hopeless. I was wrong. It DOES get better somehow. So I want the people suffering right now to know that the future is an amazing thing. Time truly does heal all wounds and the positive is you come out of such devastation so amazingly strong...and THAT is EXACTLY what your ex didns attractive in men. Strength and confidence. So I am thrilled my story helped you my friend!!! I hope it helps other DBers here. You will come out on top eventually. Listen to the song "Cold As Ice* by Foreigner...for me that song is so true!! "You're digging for gold but you're throwing away a fortune in feelings but someday YOU'LL PAY!" Best of luck to you sir and remember no contact is your best friend right now...it sure turned out to be mine in every way.
Haha Steve I doubt that... we're not there yet buddy LOL! I'm sure it will be another casual visit and more talking but as I said above. My goal is for her to fall for me again and having my own life now...I am very confident that one day soon she will. And whenever that day comes, she will be all over me I'm sure. It's like Guns N' Roses sang..."you need a little patience."
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
