I will add that even though my EW jokes around with me and initiates contact most of the time there is still a line that I don't cross and that line is bringing up our sitch. Even when we walked into the court room and our D was finalized I never brought it up, asked if she was sure this is what she wanted, etc. She is a grown adult, she started this mess and she is the one that is going to end it...not me.
