My thinking was that had the original gift plan worked out, she would have already had it. I suppose saying she's still somehow entitled to it two months later, when she has left and is seeing another man is kind of lame though.
That ship has sailed.
W.r.t the rope. It was indeed a wedding present, and she left the marriage, so (IMO) she forfeited any claim to it. Unless she wants half of it :-)
Me, H-39, W-33 T11, M3 No children Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants" Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well. W moved out 3/18 OM Confirmed 4/1 D Final 9/27/18