Hello, I'm new here. :)

[Jlh]

(Apparently posting from my ipad causes issues so I'm trying again from my laptop.)

You're right, Rose888. He says he had an emotional affair, and then was weak and failed ME by talking to her again. Then he takes my picture back to his new place while claiming to not love me anymore when he dropped the bomb a few weeks ago. I overanalyze stuff and it's not helping me any to do that.

From now on I think that I will make myself scarce when he comes by every night and weekends all day and be polite when I see him but remain at a distance. No more offering dinner with us, etc. Its about me and my son and if he ever figures out what his conflict is then I will be more than willing to talk to him about it.