Very true, Rose888, he had an emotional affair yet took a pic of us to his place so I m going to stop wondering what that was about.
I tend to overanalyze and it doesnt help me at all.
I havent been distancing when I ask him if hes joining us for dinner so Im going to stop that and just worry about my son s meals and husband can find his own on his own time.
I dont know if he speaks to the OW anymore but its not fair for him to have his cake and eat it too.

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Together for 13 years, married for 8.
H is 46
I'm 40
S is 6
Bombdrop in April 2018
Still in limbo as of 2019