Hello, I'm new here. :)

[Rose888]

Don't say anything about the photo. What good could possibly come of that? Confused people are frequently inconsistent in their behavior. Don't take it as a sign of anything other than that he is confused and conflicted.

I second the advice to study pursuit and distance.

But I think the most important thing is to differentiate yourself so that your mood and emotions are not tied to his behavior and response. I didn't distance myself in the way typically recommended here. I tried it for one day and it was a disaster. But I did work on owning my own mood, learning to self soothe so I wasn't looking to him for emotional support, getting a life, etc.