LoneWlf, recently went through same thing with my wife. 50 is a precarious age for women. Lots of MLCs around 50, and lots of Ws out there that think that the 50s are their last chance at fullfillment, happiness, finding their own identity, etc. They look at the husbands and families as hindrances to that. My wife was willing to give up custody of her only daughter in order to "find herself".

Let me tell you though, the reality of supporting herself, working a 9 to 5 job, etc rally started to wake my wife up about 6 weeks in. IN fact she made no effort on her plan to get a job, get her own place, and divorce past about week 4.

Read Cadet's links. They are invaluable. Pay attention to Sandi's rules.

And remember, believe NOTHING she says and only half of what she does.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018