No. Husband didnt sleep in the spare room because you dared to have a relationship talk. Husband slept in a different room because he is done with the marriage.
Him being done with the marriage has. Nothing to do with you. Although he will try to convince you it is. Google gaslighting in relationships. Quite honestly, he reads as a selfish narcissist. And im sure more will come out with time.
I am so sorry. But the quicker you accept this the easier it will get for you.
This is a shock to your system. And you are fighting for someone that has directly told you he is done.
I know how much it hurts. But you need to grieve and accept it and stop trying to get him to change his mind.
The control you do have is over yourself. What are you going to do to make yourself feel better? How will you GAL? Think about going no contact for your own sanity. Try getting some Intel and get so e legal advice asap.
