Celebrating my 50th birthday today and talking to you from Rome, one to tick off my bucket list.
Been separated from WW for almost a year and a half and finding peace, boys are good and I'm finally getting back to normal in fact BETTER than normal. Still have contact but is becoming less and less and never any aggression or talk about our situation.
I find myself now thinking about what's to come and not what was and accept the M is gone forever. Oh well I now find myself enjoying the "me" time and being the old Mark! Continue to GAL < massively important and generally being happy smiling more and more.
I eventually realised there is no way to affect the A so why bother! Go out and enjoy yourself continue to be the " Super Dad or Wonder Mum" and don't allow the madness affect you. Life's good.
Take care all.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".