I just wanted my kids to grow up in a loving house with two loving parents. I want to be with my kids every day. I will do my best for them, but it just won't be the same and it feels wrong.
I fully understand what you are saying. It is heart breaking to even bear the thought that these kids have to grow with mom and dad and not parents, in fact part time parents. It is so unjust to even see how the lives of us LBS and the precious children are left incomplete because of the WAS's selfishness. Every time my D says mommy and daddy as a single word a part of me dies. We grew up with parents in a happy home and are unable to give our children that basic building block of life. But I think we should take courage in the fact that we tried our best to make it work and are able to tell our children that we gave it our all but it wasn't our decision to make.
